Tuesday, January 18, 2011
♥ Boyfriend
Decided to blog about my love life. Like.. finally.
So for all kaypohs out there, good for you.
For those people who are not interested, feel free to get out of this site.
Here's my story:
In 2009 (March-April), I had this friend who was going after me. Let's just call him 'X'. Somehow.. I did not have feelings for X and something happened to us. I can't remember what that incident was about.. but I remember X got his friend (Jerrel) to help him by being the 'mediator' between us. and so.. X gave Jerrel my email address and he added me on msn to talk.
If I'm not wrong, we talked very little about X and we just went on chatting about all kinds of random stuffs online. Then.. we stopped contacting each other for 1 - 2 months. because we were not close at all. Just purely online friends and schoolmates? I saw him once in school and he kept staring at me.
I was thinking to myself: Wth, why is he staring at me? I'm just X's friend. AND WHY HIS HAIR SO LONG & STRAIGHT?! (I swear his hair looks as though it is rebonded)
The second time I saw him was at Cineleisure. I was dating with Z back then. Jerrel walked past me and AGAIN, he was staring at me.
Because of that 2 times we met, my impression of him was.. A weird guy who always stares at me.
One day, I saw J's picture on fb. He had a hair cut and he looked very different because he had really longggg hair previously.
Hahaha. I went to talk to him on msn when I saw him online that night. I started the conversation by saying something like.. "Omg?! YOU CUT YOUR HAIR!!!"
Then the conversation went on like this. We chatted about school, his ex-girlfriend (because I heard from X that he just had a break-up), about life and almost everything under the sun.
We chatted on msn every night, without running out of topics.
Then, something happened to me. I was really down at that time and J was the one being there for me. His encouragement pulled me up. We continued chatting & texting everyday. We even webcam-ed when we were really bored. I remember him showing me his pet dog (a very cute Japanese Spitz) using the webcam too! and he told me that we can walk his dog together someday. Awww.. (:
Within a few weeks, I realized I've fallen for him.
I told him not to be so nice to me because I'll fall for him and his reply was "I believe that's how everybody works". Call me stupid or what.. because I didn't know what he meant by that. Hehe.
Pardon my bad memory.. but I really cannot remember how he asked me out. :/
So yeap... we went on a date. and......
WE GOT TOGETHER ON THAT DAY ITSELF. HAHAHAHA.
Is it just the guys I've met or is it true that all guys love tickling the girls they like?
Hmm....
Yes, he tickled me knowing that I'm sensitive and afraid of tickles. -_-
Okay, I shall not elaborate further. Hehhh.
It was just a simple date on the 22nd of June in 2009 that brought us together.
To be really honest, I only 'like' him back then. My love for him was kinda.. weak?
In the beginning of the relationship, I kept wanting to give up. but he was really persistent and pulled me back every single time I want to leave.
I started loving him a few months after we got together when I was having my 2 months internship near Bishan. J stays in Lakeside and I stay in Tampines.
Almost everyday without fail, he will travel all the way to my workplace after I knock off just to have dinner with me and to send me home. I remember him buying all my favorite food for me knowing that I wasn't in a good mood because of work. So sweet of him eh?
During that 2 months+, we meet everyday. and eventually, my love for him grew stronger.
I am his top priority in his life. I was placed above everything. This silly boy of mine does not mind spending money on me too. Fyi, he is not born rich. He works and he's willing to spend his salary bringing me to eat and buying things for me. I am not a materialistic girl and I don't really like my bf to spend too much money on me. Close friends of mine should know this.
When he has free time, he will choose to spend it with me instead of his friends. Oh, and he gives in to me most of the times when we quarrel.
All these little things that he does make me realize that he is the right one for me.
Like most couples, there were hell lots of quarrels, tears, heartaches, fights and even break-ups in this relationship.
but we managed to survive through everything. It is really amazing how we stood by one another and forgave one another throughout these 18 months of relationship.
I believe in this phrase '
omnia vincit amor', which means love conquers all.
So I guess.. it is the power of love that helped us get through everything.
I count my blessings and I'm more than just thankful that Jerrel walked into my life.
I really enjoy the times we spent together (other than all those quarrels and stuffs).
I don't know how the future will be like for me and for us.
but one thing I'm sure of currently is.. I want to grow old with Jerrel.
We have quite a lot of plans for the future. Now, I can only hope that they will all come true.
I like how it feels to be yours. and i like how it feels to call you mine.
I want to continue holding your hands walking down this journey of life.
I don't want to lose you.
I love you, J.
I mean it.
"Sometimes,you just have to set your ego aside. And remember that the love you have for that other person is way more important that winning."
